persiapan raya & baby not engage yet..huuu

Dah semua orang mcm duk bcerita sal psiapan raya, saya pun nak cakap sal psiapan raya jugaklah. Walaupun sebenarnya, mood raya tu mcm belum menyerap ke dalam diri la. Mungkin sbb duk saspen nak sambut baby, jadi, keseronokan raya dengan sendiri teralih ke tepi.

So, persiapan raya saya?..As usual, theme colour adalah masih mengikut thema colour family saya..Kaler kalabu untuk tahun ini.. Baju raya adik2 dan jejaka2 dlm family dah siap tempah awal2 kecuali Arjuna. Dia degil, tetap nak tempah baju melayu dia kat cina siam kat sempadan golok nu hah..Cina tu suh amik 25 Ogos ni...Hahhh, dah nak dekat raya sgt tu...Then, xtau mcm mn nak balik amik sbb saya skang ni dah sarat sgt dan perut asik sakit main2..Tak kan Arjuna nak gi balik Kelate amik baju raya dia tinggalkan saya sekali lagi..Kne cari altenatif lain..Tp mcm mn pun, baju melayu kaler kelabu Arjuna tu mesti sampai Terengganu sebelum raya!..Kalau x, dia xle bgambor!..Saya sendiri dah beli sepasang jubah kaler kelabu tuk raya..Ye, jubah ok..No more kurung moden ikut bentuk body yg montok ini...Kalau beranak sebelum raya, baju tu jugak la yg saya pakai..Takde baju lain dah..Dan, hanya sepasang itu baju baruku!!!...

Tudung raya pun dah beli..Tp mcm x berapa puas hati sbb kirim kat orang tuk tolong belikan..Tak berapa nak bling2 la manik dia..Huuu...Songkok Arjuna, pakai yg akad nikah last year sj..Tak kan songkok hitam yg dah sah2 sama patern nak kne beli baru tiap tahun kan..Samping pun sama...Mungkin pakai yg akad nikah punya, xpun pakai yg lama punya. Kne tengok dulu mana yang matching dgn kaler kelabu..

Kasut or sandle raya x beli pun..Mmg ada bkenan bbrapa sandle cun masa gi beli belah tuk adik..Tp xle nak try sbb kaki tgh gemoksss...Macam xde saiz plak..Semua sandle jd kecik tuk kaki ni..huuu..So, xpelah...Kalau x beranak lg, saya bukannya nak kuar bjalan2 di hari raya pun..Mesti melepek je kat rumah sbb x larat..Dan kalau beranak pun, sah2 xke mana2..Tak kisah pun xde sandle or kasut baru..

Tp handbeg, mmg xle tolak..Ngee ngee.. Tak peduli la larat bawa perut ke x, bpantang bsanggul tinggi ke x, handbeg mmg xle tolak..Dah order dr US pun...Katanya 2,3 hari lagi sampailah..Hihihi..Part ni lah paling best!!!... Sungguh x sabar.. (selain x sabar tunggu baby keluar la)...

Biskut raya?..Oh, saya bukan pbuat kuih raya..Tapi saya pembeli tegar biskut raya..Sejak kerja dan sampailah dah kawen, saya yg sponsor beli biskut raya untuk rumah ibu.. Tahun2 lepas didapati pembelian biskut raya adalah satu pbaziran..Ye la..adik2 saya dan saya sendiri x mkn sgt biskut raya..Beli biskut raya bbalang2 juz tuk tetamu sahaja..Dan biasanya sampai raya haji pun belum tentu habis..Maklumlah, masa beli, rambang mata..Semua jenis nak beli..Beli lak dlm kuantiti yg banyak..Sudahnya, xde org nak mkn..Nak harap tetamu yg mkn, berapa kerat sgt la tetamu yg dtg..Bukan rumah artis pun kan..Lagipun, tetamu biasanya lebih suka mkn kuih basah drpd biskut raya..Betol x?..Jadi tahun ni, kami (saya & ibu) berazam xnak beli & hidang biskut raya tu..Kami nak tukar style..Tukar kepada kek..Kek yae..Bukan kerepek, tapi kek..Sehari sebiji kek..Kek yg lawa yg ada hias2 tu la...Bukan kek yg dah potong letak dlm balang...Bukan juga kek secret recepi..Kopak la saya kalau nak kne beli kek secret recepi berbiji2..Dah siap tempah pun kek2 tsebut untuk seminggu hari raya..Pelbagai perasa g2..Tiramisu, coklat moist, blueberry cheesecake dan apa ntah lagi...Amik ko..Kalau tetamu x mkn, gemoks la adik2ku asik mkn kek tiap hari..hahaha...Dan akan gi amik kek setiap hari kat kedai kek mengikut order yg telah dibuat...Jenuh?..Hahaha...Saya dgn ibu mmg bukan2...Layan je la..Kita tengok, tahun ni, kek2 tu habis x setiap hari..InsyaAllah, saya akan update pic kek dan progressionnya sama ada habis ke x habis setiap hari..Kalau style ini bjaya, korang pun boleh try tukar selera yea..Kalau dah bosan mkn biskut raya la..Plus, akan beli kacang2 yg best mcm pistachio dan gajus..Kalau kaya boleh bli badam & hazelnut tuk tetamu..Ohh hoo...

Raya tahun ni, of kos la beraya rumah ibu ayah saya lg..Tak kan nak travel balik Kelate..Saya xnak tberanak kat Kelate ok...Apa2 pun, beranak di Terengganu lebih baik, sbb dkt dgn ibu sendri..Sian Arjuna, dah 2x raya dah raya rumah saya..Takpe, tahun depan, janji, kita raya Kelate okeh..Hehe...

Ok lah...udah2 la mbebel pasal raya..Nak cite sal baby pulak...In 2 weeks time, berat baby dah naik 1 kg lebih dah berat saya turun 1.5kg!..Tak sangka lak berat ms preggy leh turun..Sbb selalunya, tiap kali pergi check up, mmg naik bagai juara...Mungkin sbb puasa..Setakat ni, Alhamdulillah, syukur, saya belum tinggal puasa..Penat tu mmg la..Tp kata Dr, xpe je nak puasa..Sbb org bdn mcm saya ni, xde masalah..Banyak lagi lemak2 dan zat2 tkumpul yg baby boleh serap walaupun mummy puasa...Skang ni, asik tanya baby bila nak kuar je..Sbb perut mcm dah xle nak expand lagi dah..Bila bbuka, xle mkn nasi sepinggan penuh..Nanti xle nak masuk kuih dah..Tapi sy mmg byk minum air...Tp bkn air masak..Macam xle nak telan la air masak..Ais tu mesti..Sejak kencing kotor, ibu suh saya minum barli..Then, utk elak baby kuning, saya mula minum susu kambing HiGoat tu...Then nak kne minum Anmum Maternal jugak...Tp bulan puasa, saya suka soya ais & milo ais..Tengok brapa byk jenis minuman daa nak kne minum..Sbb tu tolak air masak..Huuu...tp saya cuba jugak la minum air masak 3,4 gelas...Hurmmm...

Ni br lepas check up kat KKIA dgn misi..Misi kata kepala baby lom engage..Sepatutnya untuk anak sulong, 36weeks dah engage..Ah sudah..Then misi refer MO..Dr tu ckp, jgn risau..Baby dlm normal weight..Kepala baby pun normal..Tak la besar..Katanya, benda ni luar jangka..Baby akan sesuka hati je nak engage bila...Mungkin saya kne byk bjalan..Tp kata Dr, xsemestinya byk jalan tu bleh wat kepala baby engage...Tp boleh cuba..Ok, mlm ni nak gi soping la..Nak jalan je x nak bhenti..Biarlah penat pun...huuuuu...

What if i kne induce or ceaser?..Ada sapa2 nak kongsi kisah kne induce or ceaser x?...Juz nak mentally prepare..Huuuu..

*boleh plak tukar tajuk tuk entry yg sama..hehe..sebab nak tambah sket entry sal baby engage....

When your baby's head moves down into your pelvis, or engages, depends on many things. And rest assured that if your baby's head engages early, it doesn't follow that you will give birth early.

Just as every mum's labour is different, every baby engages at different times towards the end of pregnancy.

When the time comes, your baby moves down because the lower part of your uterus (womb) expands. Your baby's head, or bottom if he's in a breech position, will sit a little lower in your pelvis.

When this happens, it's called lightening. You'll understand why it's called that when you suddenly feel you have more room to breathe. The pressure of your baby low down on your bladder, though, means that you'll need the loo more often!

First-time babies tend to engage from about 36 weeks. However, some babies only engage once labour starts.

If this is your first baby, it's natural to worry if he still hasn't engaged when your labour starts. Rest assured that, in most cases, this is not a problem. The power of your contractions will soon push your baby down.

Here are the things that can affect when your baby engages:

-Your baby is lying with his back to your back, in a posterior position. It's harder for your baby to engage like this and it can make labour harder too. Try our tips for helping your baby to turn.

-Your baby has room to move. This can happen if there's a lot of amniotic fluid or you have had a baby before. Your baby may lie across your tummy (transverse) or at an angle (oblique). In these positions, he's less likely to engage before labour starts.

-The shape of your pelvis, the position of the placenta, or a harmless growth (fibroid). All these may affect whether and when your baby engages.

-You are expecting a big baby. In this case, your baby may not engage until contractions start.

-You are expecting twins or more.

If you're not sure whether your baby has engaged yet, ask your midwife at your next appointment. By gently pressing around the lower part of your bump, she can feel how far your baby has dropped down into your pelvis.

Your midwife will write a figure in your notes to record how many fifths of your baby's head she can feel above the edge of your pelvis. So 5/5 or 4/5 in your notes means that your baby hasn't dropped down yet, while 3/5 or 2/5 or less means that your baby is engaged.

Source : Baby centre

Dah tgk buku pink, Dr tulis 4/5.... Hopefully bbrp hari lg engage...Or insyaAllah engage ms contraction..Amin amin...